perhaps turning a "blind eye" is more the case then..
bowles seems to love to impersonate belichick in pressers.. so because of that, i'll use him as my example of respect some HC's get & some don't.. i'll be brief..
absolutely all of the things you brought up that have & continues to happen under bowles do not happen under belichick.. the reason is simple, that spit doesn't fly in NE.. people in NE don't have the luxury of keeping their starting positions/roster spots by not knowing the game plan & or not being able to follow it.. not being able to communicate it with teammates is also frowned upon..
people in NE that continue to show up late for practices, if at all get cut or traded..
stars that outlive their usefulness in NE get traded or allowed to sign with some other organization.. does a chubby future HOF CB come to mind??
granted, belichick is probably more feared in NE by his players than respected but what isn't debatable, the inmates don't run the asylum in NE.. at least not under the current HC..
Couldn't agree more, IMHO Bowles lost these guys awhile ago..it shows in their "consistent" flat performanceS.